We auto transition users from student to alumni accounts. However, we do use a self hosted pwpush server to share passwords as you described for other systems (https://github.com/pglombardo/PasswordPusher). We have it setup so we can generate "pwpush" links and include that in emails without sending initial passwords in clear text. Best solution we could find/come up with.
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